Kindness is nothing if you do not know how to be kind to yourself.
Setting boundaries is absolutely necessary especially for many of us who are sensitive souls. Yes, of course you can still be kind to others…but setting boundaries allows you to keep your energy to yourself. It disallows any energetic vampires who are out to suck / drain the energy out of you.
Once upon a time, I loved to help others (and I still do of course)! Ever since I was young, I became everyone’s beck and call. Everyone around me took advantage of my kindness and love towards them. This has caused my energetic field to be chaotic and extremely dull. Emotions that were not mine went through all over my auric and energetic field. I was vulnerable. I became weak. I began spiralling downwards.
BUT, I still wanted to be strong. So, I continued helping people, neglecting my own needs. Who could help them other than me? They need my help. I felt like a hero helping them. I know that if I were to help them this time, I wouldn’t feel guilty anymore. I want to be a role model to others too. I want to show that I care and that I help anyone genuinely and wholeheartedly.
Who has had those symptoms as mentioned above? I’m sure many of us are guilty as charged for feeling that way as well.
“We can’t help it! It’s in our blood!”
Well…after years of neglecting myself, depression and slight OCD was what happened TO me. (I’m coping with them rather awesomely now!)
No, I don’t mean that everyone will have depression and slight OCDs. I meant that the similar effects / consequences may happen to you if you don’t start taking measures right now!
Henceforth, please be kind to yourself, dearest ones.
[ 10 Sɪᴍᴘʟᴇ Sᴛᴇᴘs + A Tʀᴜᴄᴋ Lᴏᴀᴅ Oғ Cᴏᴜʀᴀɢᴇ ]
1. Gɪᴠᴇ ʏᴏᴜʀsᴇʟғ ᴀ ᴘᴇᴘ ᴛᴀʟᴋ.
2. Sᴇᴛ ɪɴᴛᴇɴᴛɪᴏɴs ᴛʜᴀᴛ ʏᴏᴜ ᴏɴʟʏ ɪɴᴠɪᴛᴇ ᴘᴇᴏᴘʟᴇ ᴡɪᴛʜ ʜᴇᴀʟᴛʜʏ ʙᴏᴜɴᴅᴀʀɪᴇs ᴛᴏ ɪɴᴛᴇʀᴀᴄᴛ ᴡɪᴛʜ ʏᴏᴜ.
3. Tʀᴜsᴛ ʏᴏᴜʀ ɪɴᴛᴜɪᴛɪᴏɴ ᴀʙᴏᴜᴛ ᴛʜɪs.
4. Aʟʟᴏᴡ ʏᴏᴜʀsᴇʟғ ᴛᴏ ғɪʟᴛᴇʀ ᴛʜʀᴏᴜɢʜ ᴛʜᴇ ᴘᴇᴏᴘʟᴇ ᴛʜᴀᴛ ʜᴀs ᴛᴀᴋᴇɴ ʏᴏᴜ ғᴏʀ ɢʀᴀɴᴛᴇᴅ.
5. Lᴇᴀʀɴ ᴛᴏ sᴀʏ NO ᴛᴏ ᴛʜᴇᴍ.
6. Aғғɪʀᴍ ʏᴏᴜʀsᴇʟғ ᴛʜᴀᴛ ʏᴏᴜ ᴀʀᴇ ʙᴇɪɴɢ ᴋɪɴᴅ ᴛᴏ ʏᴏᴜʀsᴇʟғ ʙʏ ᴘᴏʟɪᴛᴇʟʏ ʀᴇᴊᴇᴄᴛɪɴɢ ᴛʜᴇᴍ. Eᴠᴇɴ ɪғ ʏᴏᴜ ᴡᴇʀᴇ ᴛᴏ ɢɪᴠᴇ ᴇxᴄᴜsᴇs, ᴊᴜsᴛ ʟᴇᴛ ᴛʜᴇᴍ ᴋɴᴏᴡ ᴛʜᴀᴛ ʏᴏᴜ ᴀʀᴇ ɴᴏ ʟᴏɴɢᴇʀ ᴡɪʟʟɪɴɢ ᴛᴏ ʟᴇᴛ ᴛʜᴇᴍ sᴛᴇᴘ ᴀʟʟ ᴏᴠᴇʀ ʏᴏᴜ.
7. Lᴇᴛ ᴛʜᴇᴍ ᴛʜɪɴᴋ ᴡʜᴀᴛᴇᴠᴇʀ ᴛʜᴀᴛ ᴛʜᴇʏ ᴡᴀɴᴛ. Usᴜᴀʟʟʏ, ᴛʜᴇ ᴘᴇᴏᴘʟᴇ ᴡʜᴏᴍ ʏᴏᴜ ғɪʟᴛᴇʀᴇᴅ ᴏᴜᴛ ᴛʜɪɴᴋs ᴛʜᴀᴛ YOU ʜᴀᴠᴇ ᴄʜᴀɴɢᴇᴅ. Bᴜᴛ ɪɴ ғᴀᴄᴛ, ʏᴏᴜ ʜᴀᴠᴇ ᴇᴠᴏʟᴠᴇᴅ sᴘɪʀɪᴛᴜᴀʟʟʏ ᴀɴᴅ ᴇᴍᴏᴛɪᴏɴᴀʟʟʏ. Hᴇɴᴄᴇғᴏʀᴛʜ, ᴋᴇᴇᴘ ʏᴏᴜʀ ᴠɪʙʀᴀᴛɪᴏɴs ʜɪɢʜ ʙʏ ᴀғғɪʀᴍᴀᴛɪᴏɴs ᴀɢᴀɪɴ ᴀɴᴅ ᴀɢᴀɪɴ. Yᴏᴜ ᴀʀᴇ ᴅᴏɪɴɢ ɢʀᴇᴀᴛ, ᴋᴇᴇᴘ ɪᴛ ᴜᴘ!
8. Lᴇᴀʀɴ ᴛᴏ sʜɪᴇʟᴅ ʏᴏᴜʀ ᴇɴᴇʀɢʏ / ᴀᴜʀɪᴄ ғɪᴇʟᴅ. Tʜᴇʀᴇ ᴀʀᴇ ᴍᴀɴʏ ᴡᴀʏs ғᴏʀ ʏᴏᴜ ᴛᴏ sʜɪᴇʟᴅ – Aʀᴄʜᴀɴɢᴇʟ Mɪᴄʜᴀᴇʟ sʜɪᴇʟᴅ, ᴘʀᴀʏᴇʀs ᴛᴏ Gᴏᴅ, ᴘʀᴀʏᴇʀs ᴛᴏ Jᴇsᴜs, ᴇᴛᴄ. Dᴏ ᴡʜᴀᴛᴇᴠᴇʀ ᴛʜᴀᴛ ᴍᴀᴋᴇs ʏᴏᴜ ғᴇᴇʟ ᴄᴏᴍғᴏʀᴛᴀʙʟᴇ ᴀɴᴅ sᴀғᴇ!
9. DO NOT ғᴇᴇʟ ᴍᴏʀᴇ sᴜᴘᴇʀɪᴏʀ ᴛʜᴀɴ ᴏᴛʜᴇʀs. Yᴏᴜʀ ᴇɢᴏ ᴍᴀʏ ᴀᴄᴛ ᴜᴘ ʙᴇᴄᴀᴜsᴇ ʏᴏᴜ ʜᴀᴠᴇ sᴘɪʀɪᴛᴜᴀʟʟʏ ᴇᴠᴏʟᴠᴇᴅ. Tʜᴇʀᴇғᴏʀᴇ, ᴘʟᴇᴀsᴇ ʙᴇ ᴍɪɴᴅғᴜʟ ᴏғ ᴡʜᴀᴛ ʏᴏᴜ ᴀʀᴇ ᴛʜɪɴᴋɪɴɢ ᴀɴᴅ ғᴇᴇʟɪɴɢ ᴀᴛ ᴛʜɪs sᴛᴀɢᴇ.
10. Iɴsᴘɪʀᴇ ᴛʜᴏsᴇ ᴡʜᴏ ᴀʀᴇ ᴡɪʟʟɪɴɢ ᴛᴏ ʙᴇ ᴋɪɴᴅ ᴛᴏ ᴛʜᴇᴍsᴇʟᴠᴇs! Tᴇᴀᴄʜ ᴛʜᴇᴍ ᴛʜᴇ ʀᴏᴘᴇs ᴀɴᴅ ᴛʜᴇʏ ᴡɪʟʟ ᴛʜᴀɴᴋ ʏᴏᴜ ғᴏʀ ɪᴛ! Sᴘʀᴇᴀᴅ ᴛʜᴇ ʟᴏᴠᴇ, ʏ’ᴀʟʟ!
As you commit to setting boundaries, you will find that you may feel lightened & liberated! These are the high vibrational energies that you should be feeling on Earth, dearest ones. You are here to learn and have fun! Do not allow others to take the power away from you. Give yourself permission to be free of all that no longer serves you!
May Archangel Michael be present to shield everyone who needs a little more self-love than the others. Thank you Archangel Michael for your love, light, powerful protection and compassionate guidance!
☾ Sending much love, light & angel blessings to You ☽